My Transgender Date alternative for verified Thai ladyboys and trans women

My Transgender Date is a worldwide dating site for trans women and the men who date them, free for women and paid for men who want to chat. LadyBoy.net is a My Transgender Date alternative for men who mainly want to meet ladyboys and trans women in Thailand and Southeast Asia: every account is on a paid plan, verified members carry an ID checked badge, and plans start at $14.99 a month, or $7.49 a month billed yearly.

What My Transgender Date offers and what it costs

My Transgender Date (mytransgenderdate.com) used to be called MyTranssexualDate and also took over the sign-ups from MyLadyBoyDate, which now sends new members there. Its home page says the site is 100% free for trans women, that men must upgrade to Premium to use the chat, and that it has screened more than 135,000 profiles. It runs in 12 site languages, Thai included, and has iPhone and Android apps launched in 2023.

Men pay by subscription. DatingScout's pricing table, last updated in September 2026, lists these Premium plans, all renewing automatically:

The same review says new members confirm their email and send a selfie or posed photo that a moderator checks, and that refunds within 10 days are partial. Uninstalling the app does not cancel the plan, so cancel through support before the renewal date.

Why men look for a My Transgender Date alternative

My Transgender Date is a real, moderated site, and for many men it works. The reasons people search for something else are usually specific.

• The pool is global. Most members are in the US and France according to DatingScout. That is fine if you date at home, less useful if you want to meet women in Bangkok, Pattaya or Phuket.
• Free accounts for women attract some noise. Reviewers still report fake profiles getting through and complain that part of the male audience is not really looking for a relationship with a trans woman.
• One month costs $29. The cheaper per month rates need a 6 or 12 month payment up front.
• The rules are narrow. DatingScout describes a policy that limits the site to fully transitioned trans women and says other accounts may be flagged. Many Thai ladyboys describe themselves differently and do not fit that box.

My Transgender Date vs LadyBoy.net side by side

This table uses what each site publishes plus the DatingScout review for My Transgender Date prices. Check their current offer before you pay.

Where My Transgender Date wins: a far bigger worldwide pool, native apps, unlimited chat on any Premium plan and a long track record. Where we win: a pool that is almost all in Thailand and nearby countries, a lower monthly price, an ID check behind every verified badge, and paid accounts on both sides, which makes throwaway and money-asking profiles expensive to run.

What you pay on LadyBoy.net

One flat plan per month, no credits. Yearly billing halves the price, and you can cancel anytime and keep access until the paid period ends.

A man who writes to a few women a month pays $7.49 a month on Member billed yearly, a little more than two thirds of My Transgender Date's best 12 month rate. Plus at $29.99 a month matches their one month price and adds 50 new threads with a monthly boost. The pricing page lists every plan with forum and creator access.

Who should switch, and who should stay

Switch to LadyBoy.net if you are planning a trip to Thailand and want to talk to verified women in that city before you land, if you live in the US and want a long distance relationship with a Thai woman who writes in her own language, or if you were worn out by profiles that disappeared after one message. The ladyboy dating page shows how matching works by city.

Stay on My Transgender Date if you want to meet trans women near you in the US or Europe, if you need a native app, or if unlimited chat on day one matters more to you than a Thailand focus. Plenty of men keep both for a while. Our best transgender dating app roundup compares it with TS Dates, Taimi and the mainstream apps, and the MyLadyBoyDate alternative page explains what happened to MyLadyBoyDate.

How to move over in four steps

1. Create your account. Enter your email, confirm you are 18 or older, type the six digit code from your inbox and pick your role. No password and no questionnaire.
2. Write a profile she can trust. Say which city you live in or are visiting, which languages you speak and what you are looking for. Use recent photos without your workplace, home or car plate in them.
3. Search with verified only switched on. Start with Bangkok, Pattaya, Phuket or Chiang Mai, or your own city. The filter hides every profile that has not passed an ID check.
4. Send a message about her, not about her body. Mention something from her profile and ask about her city or job. Questions about surgery get ignored on every site.

If you have a contact on My Transgender Date, swap another way to stay in touch before your Premium period ends, and cancel through their support if you do not want it to renew.

Safety and scam protection

Dating on LadyBoy.net is between adults, without payment. Escort offers, paid meetings and requests to pay for company are banned and the accounts are removed. Messages are screened for common scam patterns such as a hospital bill, a visa fee or a plane ticket that suddenly needs paying, and a warning appears in the chat when one shows up. You can block or report anyone from any screen, and the safety page explains what happens after a report. Never send money to someone you have not met, whatever the story.