MyLadyBoyDate alternative for verified ladyboy dating

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If you came looking for MyLadyBoyDate, you may have noticed that new profiles there are now redirected to My Transgender Date, a general trans dating site. LadyBoy.net is a MyLadyBoyDate alternative built only around ladyboys and Thai and Asian trans women, with ID verified profiles, city search in English and Thai, and no paid meetings.

What happened to MyLadyBoyDate

MyLadyBoyDate was a dating site for ladyboys and the men who date them, running since 2013. It has since been folded into its sister site. The MyLadyBoyDate home page still loads, but its sign-up buttons send you to mytransgenderdate.com, and the site describes itself as part of My Transgender Date. Free sign-up still exists there, trans women use it at no cost, and men need a Premium membership to chat. The site does not publish Premium prices on its home page.

That is a reasonable product. It is just a different one. My Transgender Date covers trans women everywhere, in twelve site languages, so a search for a Thai woman in Pattaya sits next to profiles from Ohio and Berlin. Many former MyLadyBoyDate members wanted the narrower thing: a site where Thailand and Southeast Asia are the center, not one filter among many.

Why people look for a MyLadyBoyDate alternative

The reasons people give for leaving fall into a few groups.

  • The focus changed. A ladyboy dating site became a wider transgender dating site, and the Thai and Asian side is now a smaller share of what you see.
  • Free profiles bring noise. A free sign-up for everyone makes it easy to create throwaway accounts, and users of open dating apps often report requests for money and copy-paste messages.
  • Verification is not explained. Profiles there are described as screened, but the steps are not published, so you cannot tell an ID checked woman from an unchecked one.
  • Language. Many Thai women write more comfortably in Thai. A site that treats Thai as a full language, not a translation layer, gets better conversations.
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How LadyBoy.net compares

The table uses only what each site states publicly about itself. Check their current terms before you pay, since plans change.

Feature LadyBoy.net My Transgender Date (former MyLadyBoyDate)
Who it is for ladyboys and Thai and Asian trans women, and the people who date them trans women worldwide and men who date them
Sign-up paid plan for every account free sign-up, Premium needed for men to chat
Price from $14.99 a month, $7.49 a month billed yearly not listed on the home page
Verification badge after an age and ID check, verified only filter in search profiles described as screened, steps not published
Languages full English and Thai versions twelve site languages
Beyond dating forum, creator subscriptions, city and event guide dating and chat
Paid meetings banned, accounts removed respectful conduct policy
On your phone mobile site you can add to the home screen iPhone and Android app

Where they win: My Transgender Date has a native app and a far bigger pool if you are open to trans women from any country, and women join it free. If that is what you want, it is a solid choice. Where we win: if your interest is ladyboy dating in Thailand and nearby countries, you get a smaller, checked pool where every member has paid and every verified profile has been ID checked.

Moving over from MyLadyBoyDate in four steps

  1. Create your account. Enter your email, confirm you are 18 or older, type the six digit code from your inbox and choose your role. There is no password to remember.
  2. Rebuild your profile with care. Write your city, the languages you speak and what you want, whether that is a relationship, friendship or company for a trip. Do not copy over old photos that show your face next to your workplace or car plate.
  3. Search by city and switch on verified only. Start with your own city or the one you plan to visit, such as Bangkok, Pattaya or Phuket. Send likes to profiles you would actually write to.
  4. Write a real first message. Mention something from her profile. Questions about her city or work get replies. Comments about her body and questions about surgery do not.

If you used to talk to someone on MyLadyBoyDate and want to stay in touch, ask her for a way to reach you that you are both comfortable with before the old account goes quiet. Never send money to a person you have not met, whatever the reason given.

What it costs

Every account is a paid membership. There is no free plan, which is the main reason fake and scam profiles are rare. Yearly billing halves the monthly price, and you can cancel anytime and keep access until the end of the period you paid for.

Plan Monthly Yearly, per month For dating
Member $14.99 $7.49 full profiles, 20 likes a day, 5 new message threads a month
Plus $29.99 $14.99 unlimited likes, 50 threads a month, see who liked you, monthly profile boost
VIP $59.99 $29.99 unlimited threads, VIP badge, priority support

The pricing page lists every plan with creator subscriptions and the forum included.

Safety rules that apply to everyone

Dating on LadyBoy.net is between adults, without payment. Escort offers, paid meetings and requests to pay for company are banned, and the accounts involved are removed. Messages are screened for common scam patterns, such as a sudden emergency, a visa fee or a plane ticket that needs paying, and a warning appears in the conversation when one shows up. You can block or report anyone from any screen. The safety page explains how reports are handled, and our ladyboy dating page covers how matching and messaging work day to day.

Questions people ask

Is MyLadyBoyDate still working?+

The MyLadyBoyDate home page still loads, but new sign-ups are redirected to My Transgender Date, and the site describes itself as part of that platform. In practice, a new MyLadyBoyDate account is a My Transgender Date account, with its wider trans dating pool and its own Premium plans.

What is the best alternative to MyLadyBoyDate?+

It depends on what you want. If you are open to trans women from any country, My Transgender Date is the direct successor. If you want a site focused on ladyboys from Thailand and Southeast Asia, with ID verified profiles and English and Thai, LadyBoy.net is built for exactly that.

Is LadyBoy.net free for men?+

No. Every account is on a paid plan, starting with Member at $14.99 a month or $7.49 a month billed yearly. There is no free plan, which keeps out throwaway profiles and most scammers.

Are the women on LadyBoy.net verified?+

Verified members carry a badge after an age and ID check, and search has a verified only filter. Creators go through the same check with signed consent before they can publish anything.

Can I use LadyBoy.net on my phone like the MyLadyBoyDate app?+

Yes. LadyBoy.net works in the browser on any phone, and you can add it to your home screen so it opens like an app. Search, likes, messages and the forum all work on a small screen.

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