Best ladyboy dating sites and apps compared side by side

The best ladyboy dating site is the one where the women are real, verified and actually in the country you care about. For Thailand and Southeast Asia, the main options are LadyBoy.net, My Transgender Date (which absorbed MyLadyBoyDate), LadyboyKisses and the TrulyLadyboy app. They differ most on verification, whether women and men pay, and how wide the pool is.

The short answer

If you want only ladyboys from Thailand and nearby countries, with ID checked profiles and Thai as a full language, pick LadyBoy.net. If you want the largest pool of trans women from every country and a native app, pick My Transgender Date. If budget is the main concern and you can live with more spam, LadyboyKisses has the lowest listed price. TrulyLadyboy is an option for people who prefer an app store app with video chat.

Best ladyboy dating sites at a glance

Prices and claims below come from each site's own pages and app store listings, plus one third party review where the site hides its prices. Check the current offer before you pay, since dating sites change plans often.

How we compared them

We looked at the things a paying member actually feels after the first week:

• Who pays. On sites where everyone joins free, anyone can open ten accounts in an afternoon. A paid wall for every member is the strongest filter against fake profiles.
• What verification means. "Screened" and "moderated" are not the same as an ID check. We gave credit only where the site says what it checks.
• Pool and geography. A huge worldwide pool is useless if you live in Texas and fly to Pattaya twice a year. Filters by city and language matter more than the headline member count.
• Language. Many Thai women prefer to write in Thai. A site that runs fully in Thai, not through a translate button, gets longer and more honest conversations.
• Rules on money. The best sites say plainly that paid meetings are banned and act on reports.

LadyBoy.net

LadyBoy.net is a dating site and community built only for ladyboys and trans women from Thailand and Asia and the people who date them. Every account is on a paid plan, which removes most throwaway profiles. Members who pass an age and ID check get a verified badge, and you can switch search to verified only. The whole site runs in English and Thai.

Dating sits next to a moderated forum, a city and event guide for Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket, and subscriptions to verified creators, so the women you meet are members of the same community, not just entries in a search grid.

Where it falls short: there is no store app (it runs as a mobile site you add to your home screen), and the pool is narrower by design. If you want trans women from Europe or the US as well, a wider site will show you more profiles.

My Transgender Date (former MyLadyBoyDate)

My Transgender Date is the site MyLadyBoyDate now redirects new sign-ups to. It serves trans women worldwide and men who date them. Trans women use it free, men can sign up and browse matches free, and chatting needs Premium. The home page does not list Premium prices. It claims over 135,000 screened profiles, a website in twelve languages including Thai, and an iPhone and Android app.

Strong points: a large worldwide pool and a native app. Weak points: Thailand is one region among many, and the screening steps are not published. If you came from MyLadyBoyDate and miss the Thai focus, our MyLadyBoyDate alternative page compares the two in detail.

LadyboyKisses

LadyboyKisses is a ladyboy dating site with an app, aimed mostly at Southeast Asia. Registration and browsing are free, with a few free contacts per day. A DatingScout review lists paid plans from $12.24 a month and describes the design as dated. The same review notes that couples looking for third partners also use the site, so the intent of members is mixed.

Strong points: the lowest listed paid price and a Southeast Asian pool. Weak points: free registration means more inactive and fake profiles, and the mixed intent will not suit someone looking for a relationship.

TrulyLadyboy app

TrulyLadyboy is an iPhone app for trans women and the people who date them. The free version covers a profile, messaging and browsing. Premium, listed at $28.95 a month on the US App Store, adds video chat, translation and unlimited messages. The app has 17 ratings averaging 3.6, and some reviews mention scammers asking for money.

Strong points: video chat and translation inside the app. Weak points: a small number of reviews, scam complaints and a monthly price close to a mid tier plan elsewhere.

Which ladyboy dating site should you choose?

Match the site to your plan, not to the biggest member number.

• You travel to Thailand and want to meet someone there. Choose a Thailand focused site with city search and verified profiles. That is the case LadyBoy.net is built for.
• You are open to trans women anywhere. A worldwide site like My Transgender Date gives you more profiles.
• You only want to test the waters cheaply. LadyboyKisses has the lowest entry price, but budget time for filtering spam.
• You want video calls before you meet. An app with video chat, such as TrulyLadyboy, covers that, though check recent reviews first.

Are ladyboy dating sites safe?

They can be, if the site checks identities and you follow a few rules. Never send money to someone you have not met, whatever the reason. Move to a video call before you travel. Meet in a public place in daylight for the first date. Before you put your real name on any dating profile, it is worth checking how much of your home address and phone number already shows up on people search sites, and removing your personal data from those broker sites if it does. Our safety page covers how reports and scam warnings work on LadyBoy.net.